100% of your 50%

100% of your 50%

Giving 100% of your 50%

In everything you do, it is only worth doing if you give it a 100%.   

It is an old saying but still people are getting it confused.

This does not mean that you give 100% of you to everything and leave yourself out.

In everything we do, it requires equal exchange of energy.  That exchange can vary ie it can be a financial exchange, a barter exchange, an energy exchange, an exchange of favours.  

Getting caught in your thoughts!!!

Getting caught in your thoughts!!!

Have you ever got so caught up in thinking about something that is going on and playing it out in your mind to the point where you have thought of all the things that could go wrong if you decide to do the something you started to think about?

Personal Loyalty

Personal Loyalty

Generous, caring, nurturing, loving souls like us have a tendency to willingly and lovingly help others.  

This is a noble and unselfish thing to do and it can be of enormous help to others.   

However, there can be a point where you are doing too much for others and not enough for yourself.

How is your Self Esteem going?

How is your Self Esteem going?

 

It's totally normal for people to feel down about themselves from time to time but when these feelings start to hang around all the time it's usually an indication of low self-esteem.  If you have low self-esteem it means that you have negative ideas about your worth and value as a person.  There are various signs of low self-esteem, including:

  • Being really critical of yourself
  • Focusing on the negatives and ignoring your accomplishments
  • Comparing yourself to others
  • Not accepting any compliments that you receive
  • Negative self-talk

The Journey of Divorce

The Journey of Divorce

Even with that strong support network, there are times in the divorce process where you just need someone separate to everything, to talk to and bounce things off. 

Family Stress

Family Stress

Your family never forgives your partner for the ups and downs.  They put doubt in your mind about your partner.

How often do you feel that they are talking in a totally different language or in a totally different relationship?

How often do you feel that they are talking in a totally different language or in a totally different relationship?

Although you may be a person that feels emotionally loved by your partner when they buy you a gift and give you a loving hug, that it doesn’t necessarily mean that your partner feels emotionally loved in the same manner.   Just as the way you communicate what you think and feel, isn’t necessarily going to be the same way your partner communicates and unfortunately, there is very little you can do to change those differences.

The 7 years cycles and its connection to relationships

The 7 years cycles and its connection to relationships

The map of how to act and interpret is formed by the actions or in-actions of the people in our environment.